Friday, May 7, 2010

18 Months and Counting...

Today was Finley's 18 month well-check... even though it's a bit past due...  Oh, how I LOVE going to see the pediatrician!  It is the one place that reassures me of my parenting skills and the one place that I can trust the advice to be constructive.  I get so tired of hearing "Sure doesn't look like she's missed a meal" or "Wow, she is pretty petite" and yes, oddly, I hear both phrases about my gorgeous daughter! (I've never understood why people feel the need to voice their opinions on a child that isn't theirs, but that is a whole other topic!!!!!)  So going to see Dr. K and hearing from a medical standpoint how she is developing physically, socially, emotionally, etc. is always so comforting!

Here's the latest report:

Height: 32 3/4 inches!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I kid you not when I tell you that she has grown almost 2 inches in the past two weeks!  I was able to get a pretty good measure of her on her 18 month birthday and I felt like 31 inches was a bit generous! =)  I can tell by the way her clothes are fitting that she really has gotten quite a bit taller!

Weight: 23 pounds 7 ounces though that was fully clothed with shoes.  Apparently, they don't care about the exact weight so much at 18 months and older!  Before they were so adamant about stripping her down to a clean, dry diaper that it was a bit of a shock to weigh her so completely clothed! =)  Regardless, she is now a complete percentile higher in height versus weight after being pretty even for much of her life.

Head Circumference: 46.5 cm

The Good News: 
He said her growth curve showed a real growth spurt from her 15 month appointment and that she is absolutely perfect!  He said she was really developing well both socially and emotionally as well as physically and that she is doing just great! =)

The Bad News: 
He said that she doesn't have allergies like we thought, but instead suffers from sinus infections which are pretty much UNHEARD of in children as young as Finley.... so he said that she will probably have a continual battle with sinus infections and that because the signs are so similar to other illnesses present in children, we're really going to need to take note of how long she suffers with the symptoms and bring her in when she has been battling them for 2 weeks.  Hopefully, we'll be able to better identify the sinus infections and get her treatment sooner and sooner so she won't have to suffer.

The Tough Love Portion:
No more binkies except in bed.  For the most part, Finley doesn't have a binky except for bed and car, but he said he'd like it to be gone by 2 so we need to start cutting out taking it with us places.  This will be difficult for me since it's often how I occupy her during errands, but we'll find other ways now that she's getting a bit older and able to play with toys, etc.

The Food Advice:
We recently discovered that Finley is totally a sucker for peer pressure... she will eat completely different stuff when she is around other kids who are eating with her.  She also ate a bite of hamburger and a ton of baked beans the other night at Devin's parents' house... so we've started giving her a plate full of choices and more "real" food which has paid off.  I talked with Dr. K about it because Finley has always seemed so picky and his advice was that there isn't anything she can't eat now so we should make the switch to "real" food.  He also said not get frustrated, but not to give in either.  So pray for me!  I am sure it will be fine, but it does mean a little more work for me to get her meals together since Devin doesn't get home until right before her bedtime and therefore, our dinner isn't ready until she's already in bed.  I may just have to specifically start making her a plate of our dinner and give it to her the next day which won't be a big deal if that works out.  I'm excited to see how it goes!  I'm tired of feeding her the same 5 foods every day... it'll be nice to see her eating big girl food! =)

Our next appointment isn't for 6 more months... the longest we've ever been between visits!  My little girl is becoming such a BIG girl, but I love it!

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Why I love Being a Mom...


Since my 3rd Mother's Day (yes, I count the first one where I was pregnant) is this week, I thought I would post the 3 things I love most about being a mom!

1. I love seeing the world through Finley's eyes.  There's no denying that I became an adult a bit sooner than most so it is an extra treat to see life again through innocent, God-given, untainted, full of joy, optimistic, energetic eyes.  Every day is full of wonder... full of life and love and grace.

2. I love seeing the product of mine and Devin's love.  I love her more because she is him and therefore love him more because he is her.  I don't know if that makes sense, but it is amazing to see such a blend of both of us in a single person.  Just when I think she is all Devin, she makes a certain face or shows a bit of attitude that is so me and I realize that she is part me, part Devin, and all Finley just as God created her to be.

3. I love seeing God's love for me through my love for her.  I admit that I used to throw myself some pity parties of "If You loved me, why.....?" before I fully understood God's grace and plan, but any doubts I could've ever had about my salvation or of God's ultimate, perfect love for me are long gone these days.  Every day, I have the gift of loving Finley and knowing that my Heavenly Father loves me even more.  I am captivated by Finley's every move and know that God is even more so.  I cannot imagine loving Finley as much as I do or love being a mom as much as I do if it weren't for His perfect love inside of me.

I love being a mom for so many reasons.  Sometimes it seems like an awfully selfish job though it is credited as one of the most unselfish...   She is making me a better person and growing me in so many ways that my teaching her the ABC's, eating with a spoon, and how to stack blocks seems awfully minor in comparison.  And yes, I know I'm doing more than that! =)