Showing posts with label Easter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Easter. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Easter Week 2012

Aww... I always thought I would be that mom who has holiday decorations up a month in advance and has planned all of these super creative activities for my kids.  I am NOT that mom!  At least not right now.  I learned this at Christmas when I bought a ton of stuff to have all of these meaningful experiences with my kids and didn't get a single one done because each activity took too much prep work or didn't fit into the timing of naps, etc.  I think I learn this lesson each and every holiday, but this is the first one that I just accepted the fact that I needed short, easy, straight-forward activities even if that meant sacrificing creativity and all of the ideas I have saved that are so much cuter!

So instead I planned activities that I had done before with the kids (except for a couple) and what was great about this is that I wasn't stressed and therefore, the kids weren't stressed and I was really able to see how much Finley's ability to understand had grown since last year!  We had a really great Easter week and I am so thankful that God is opening Finley's heart to hear His words of TRUTH!

Here is a glimpse into our week....

Sunday:
At church, Finley made a palm for Palm Sunday and we talked about Hosanna and the waving of the palm branches.  After naps, we also dyed Easter eggs.



This is the first time we have done this and I am glad we waited a little while because Finley seemed to be the perfect age for this activity.  I'm excited to get a book that I saw relating egg dying to Christ, but for this year, we just talked about how the dye changed the egg and how Christ's work on the cross changes us...  The boiling changes the inside, the dye the outside just as Christ changes all of us when we put our faith in Him.  We truly do become a new creation.  I'm curious to see how the book relates the two because I'm sure there are other metaphors!

Monday:




After picking Finley up from school, we went to the zoo!  I had taken her to the zoo for Easter a couple of years ago, but we didn't go last year.  We headed straight for the Children's Zoo which we haven't been to in awhile.  We petted the lambs and talked about how Jesus is our Lamb... our perfect sacrificial lamb!  Then we saw the donkeys and before I could even say anything Finley said "Mommy, donkeys!  Jesus rode on a donkey!"  No explanation needed!  Ha!  This was an easy way to give her (and Jude) a tangible look at some of what we had been reading about leading up to Holy Week.

Tuesday:





We made our handprints and then I read from the Storybook Bible about how Christ had been nailed to the cross.  We then took nails and piereced our handprints.  We have done this every year since Finley was 1 and it is fun to see how her handprint has grown over the years.  Jude's from last year was so tiny! So adorable!  Finley truly seemed to grasp this concept this year.  It is such an easy activity and one that takes no time at all and yet we had some great discussion about how much that would hurt and why "the bad men" would do that to Jesus.  We also talked about the crown of thorns and why Jesus was being mocked.  Finley spent the rest of the week talking about how Christ's head bled from the thorns and that He needed a bandaid!  The best part was after we talked about everything, Finley took Jude's handprint and told him all about it.  She was such a cute little teacher.  Devin and I laugh that she doesn't seem to understand that if we are all in the same room that everyone can hear the same things.  She is constantly saying "Mommy, Daddy said that I could have some yogurt." and I have to say "Finley, I can hear Daddy just like you can!"  But in this instance, it was super wonderful to hear her repeat to her brother the important truths we had just discussed!

Wednesday:





After I picked Finley up from school, we came home and used the Resurrection Eggs to go through the story of Christ's death and resurrection.  We read the Scripture verses and talked about each item hidden in the egg that pertained to that Scripture.  I don't think I was fully prepared for Finley's understanding during this activity, but it was so great to see!  These eggs gave us the opportunity to really talk about each part-- Judas, the whip, the thorns, the purple cloth, the thieves, the empty tomb, etc.  I really enjoyed this activity this year because it went into more detail than other activities that we had done and Finley couldn't wait to see what was in each egg!  Again, it was fun to have Finley show Jude the items and paraphrase what she and I had just talked about.  I love seeing the two of them interact!

Thursday:






I had planned for us to do something a little more "crafty", but at the last minute decided to do an Easter egg hunt with Finley during Jude's naptime.  I hid eggs in the backyard and then let her find them.  As she opened the eggs, I helped her lay out the pieces of paper hidden inside to form the bible verse John 3:16 using her name.  We had a pastor talk to our moms' group a couple of weeks ago about the importance of using this verse with the Easter story and emphasizing God's great love for us because that is what enables the whole story to be fully understood and appreciated.  Finley loves to "find" her name places so since I personalized the verse for her, she was so excited to see "F-i-n-l-e-y" spelled out.  We will definitely do versions of this activity again!!!!

Friday:
As in years past, we went to a walk through Good Friday service at a church in town.  I would have liked to spend a lot longer there, but I knew that with two kids, we would have to make it pretty quick.  The kids did great though and we were able to visit each station and talk about the garden, the torn veil, the spices, etc.  Like the resurrection eggs, I liked how we walked through the whole story from beginning to end and the authentic visuals that this church had displayed for us to touch and smell was very beneficial!  At the end, we could write our sins on a piece of paper and nail them to a huge cross.  Finley is still trying to understand sin.  She knows she doesn't always obey and she knows that she throws fits and is mean and has a bad attitude, but she still isn't quite getting why all of those things are wrong or that they are considered sin.  I helped her come up with a sin and then we nailed it to the cross.

Saturday:





We made our annual resurrection rolls and Finley loved that Jesus was a marshmallow!  She was very interested in the tomb and the big stone so she completely got into it being hollow after it was cooked.  Last year, she understood that Jesus Comes Back Alive! so I think it was fun for her to build on those concepts from a year ago.

Sunday:






Easter Sunday!  Devin and I went to a Good Friday service and even though the kids didn't participate in it with us, I must say that I love the dramatic change in mood that occurs from the Good Friday service and Easter Sunday!  Our church does a great job of setting the somber mood on Friday and the joyous one that occurs on Sunday.  We definitely celebrated our Risen Savior!  Thanks be to God!!!!

As a bonus, on our way out on Sunday, the director of the children's ministry at our church stopped us and said "I didn't have to teach today."  We looked at her and she continued "Finley did it for me.  She knew the whole story of Easter!"  Tears came to my eyes because God is so faithful!  I was feeling a bit alone all week because I wasn't sure how to teach her such important truths and even though I knew that God would honor my obedience and was completely in control of opening her heart to what she was hearing, it was just such a testimony to how amazing our God is!  I am so thankful that my little girl is able through His grace to process the story of Easter in her own way on her own level.  How beautiful that is and how humbling it is to be a part of God's work in the lives of my children!

Friday, April 6, 2012

We Kill Jesus in Our House

When it comes to Christmas, I know I'm in a camp of my own.  "You don't celebrate Santa.  Hmmm...."

I know we are not the only family that doesn't celebrate Santa, but we are the only family in my little world who doesn't.  I've grown accustomed to the looks and questions...

But when it comes to Easter, I had no idea that I was also in a camp of my own... until this year.

I assumed that there was the Easter Bunny camp, the Jesus and Easter Bunny camp, and the Jesus only camp.  But lately I have found that most families around me only celebrate half of the Easter story... the "Jesus rose from the dead!" half... neglecting to ever put Him in the ground first.

Apparently, the sword, the whip, the nails, the cross, the death are all too violent for childrens' ears.

And I agree because the truth is that the real story with all of its gruesome details are too violent for my 30+ year old self much less for my 1 and 3 year olds!!! (Sidenote: I literally tried to hide under my chair in the movie theater while watching the Passion of Christ.)

And yet, how can we fully celebrate Jesus rising from the dead if we don't also celebrate the death that took place on Good Friday?

There's a reason it is called GOOD Friday.

It is good.  So good.

I try very hard to keep everything age appropriate for my kids.  I totally understand the concern of exposing them to things that they aren't ready for.  I'm the one who banned Winnie the Pooh from our playlist because Finley was terrified of the 100 Acre Woods.  I get it.  Totally get it.

And yet, I see no way to plant the seeds or to fully celebrate Easter without killing Jesus.  So we talk about the whip.  We talk about the thorns.  We talk about the sword.  The cross.  The blood.  We talk about it all.  We may not go into graphic detail, but we don't leave anything out either.

Afterall Finley has seen the prince slay the dragon (by a sword mind you...) in Sleeping Beauty.  She has seen Simba kill off Scar in the Lion King.  She has witnessed and heard all kinds of fairytales about love and death so why would I shield her from the greatest fairytale of all?  The only fairytale that is true!  The one about the Prince of Peace who comes to earth because of His LOVE for us, dies a violent death, is buried, and rises again in order to conquer death and by doing so pays for our sins so that we can have eternal life with HIM.

Yep, we kill Jesus in our house.  And we'll keep killing Him every year at Easter in the hopes that each year our (all of our) understanding of His amazing sacrifice will ring true in our hearts every day and not just on Easter.... that we will fully appreciate the fact that He rose again because we know what He overcame to do so.

And so far, there have been no nightmares to speak of...  only smiles, cries of joy, and exclamations of "Jesus died on the cross to pay for our sins!  Isn't that AMAZING?"  Yes, sweet girl, it is amazing!!!!!!!!

Happy Good Friday!

Friday, April 29, 2011

More Easter 2011

Here are some more pictures from our Easter....

We tried to get a picture with the Easter Bunny, but Finley was very scared of him.  She kept saying "Finley scared.... No bunny!"  It made me so sad so we tried very quickly to get a family picture with him and this is what we got:

Devin and I hate this picture, but it was $5 compared to the $30 we'd have spent at the mall to scare our little girl to death so we'll just go with it! =)

After seeing the Bunny, we went to an Easter Egg Hunt.

 My Silly Girl


Can you see her clinging to Daddy?

It was naptime and Finley wasn't too interested.  We had to wait awhile before they could actually hunt the eggs which didn't help.  She did get one egg thanks to Daddy!



We also did an Easter Egg Hunt with my mom's group which went a bit better.  She was more interested in playing than hunting eggs, but she did actually decide to put a few in her basket this time! =)




Her third Easter Egg Hunt took place during her MDO Easter Party and it was by far the most fun.  I could tell Finley really enjoyed it this time.  She and her friends had so much fun.


Afterwards, we had a little Easter Party for her class.  I was glad that she seemed happy for me to be there and didn't seem to mind that I was helping with everything and not focusing all of my attention on her.

What a great time of celebration!  We truly had a great time enjoying this Easter season!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Easter Week 2011

We had a very full week of activities leading up to Easter!  Just like last year, we had Easter Week in an attempt to fully prepare our hearts.  Each day, Finley, Jude, and I had something planned to make this time about the Lamb and not the Bunny.

Here's an overview of some of the other traditions, both new and old, that we enjoyed during Easter Week:

Palm Branch:
Waving it in celebration! 

 Here Jude!!!  Hold the Palm Branch!

(I'm not sure why the branch says Naomi on it... She made it in Sunday school so maybe we ended up with the wrong one!)

Easter Cookies Given to Neighbors:  (Finley had sooooo much fun with this!!!!  We will definitely have to cook together more!)


 Daddy taught her that she could eat the cookie dough!  She is a BIG fan!



Enjoying the "fruits" of her labor!



Resurrection Eggs: (As I was reading the Scriptures on the papers hidden in the eggs, Finley said "Momma, Bible is God's Word!"  I was so proud of her that she recognized that I was reading from the Bible even though it was on paper and not from the actual Bible.)


 Showing Jude the purple "robe"


Jude with one of the guard's swords

Crucified Handprints: (I wasn't planning to do this again this year, but when I found Finley's handprint from last year, I knew I had to.  It was so fun to hold both of them up and see how much her hand has grown in a year.)

Making her handprint...

After we put the nail in...  I love this picture... it looks like she really understands the sadness of it all. 

Showing Jude his handprint....  

Jude posing with his....

Jellybean Favors for her friends at MDO:  (I loved the little poem that went with them.)


Stained Glass Crosses: (We talked about how just as the light shines through the crosses, His light shines through us!)

 Hmm... where do I start?

 I'll just jump in!

 Showing Jude the one we made him!

 It's a cross!

Allowing His light to shine!

Tomb Cookies: (Finley enjoyed these, but neither of us could eat a whole one... they were super sweet!  I had her taste the vinegar, the sugar, and the salt and talked about the symbolism.  She didn't really make a face after any of them, but she immediately reached for her water after tasting the vinegar!)

 Here's what she did after the vinegar... and then

 grabbed the water!  Can't blame her!

 Helping measure...

 We had to beat it for 15 minutes!!!!

 Talking about what it all meant...

 Sealing the tomb...

The next morning... seeing what had happened over night!

Hands-on Good Friday Service:  (This was amazing!!!!  It was very solemn so I felt bad taking pictures... I would have loved to take more. We will definitely continue this tradition along with going to our traditional Good Friday Service at night.)

 Finley touching the wood that made up the cross!

The curtain is torn!  I loved seeing this.  We studied it in BSF last year and it has totally new significance to me now!

Ressurrection Rolls:



Easter Books:  (Each night we chose a different Easter book to read and talked about Christ's sacrifice for us.)